Getting a cat
to be more affectionate is the yearning of many a pet owner. Some cats are
antisocial when it comes to being picked up, cuddled or petted (much less
sitting in a person’s lap for these shows of affection). Other kitties are born
loving this sort of attention.
If you’re not
lucky enough to have a cat who automatically seeks out your affection, trying
to entice that reclusive furball to become your snuggle buddy may take some
motivation and determination on your part. Your pet may never convert to a
drooly lap cat, even after weeks of effort on your part, but at the very least
you’ll probably strengthen your relationship with your cat.
1. Get the Basics
Down
The initial
stage of coaxing a cat into being more lovable is to let her recognize your
positive intentions by dependably offering her good food, clean water, fun toys
to play with and a litterbox that is cleaned regularly. When she’s happier,
you’ll be happier, and these mutual good feelings will carry over into your
relationship together.
Spend extra
time with your cat, letting her see you not as her owner but as her friend,
meal provider and guardian. If she’s not coming up to you to say hi, be
proactive: Walk over to her (as long as she’s not super-shy) and lavish
affection on her. Once she gets used to all this attention, she might very well
start seeking it out from you.
2 Be Affectionate
While Feeding
While
preparing her food (or making a production of opening that can of food), talk
to your kitty. When she begins eating, gently stroke her a few times. This will
help her associate being petted with a positive experience.
3. Be Playful
Instead of
trying to force a hug from your reluctant cat, play with her a little, maybe
getting her to paw at a piece of string or chase after a laser pointer.
No comments:
Post a Comment